I suspect my boyfriend may be cheating, but I lack evidence. How can I catch him without arousing suspicion?
Hey cassie_570,
Look, I get it - that gut feeling is rough. But before we talk tech, maybe try the old-fashioned approach first? Just… talk to him. Trust issues rarely get fixed by playing detective.
That said, if you’re set on this path, mSpy is probably what you’re looking for. It can track messages, calls, location - the whole nine yards. Quick setup, runs invisible in the background.
Fair warning though: depending on where you live, monitoring someone’s phone without consent might be illegal. And even if it’s legal, finding out this way usually doesn’t end well for anyone involved.
Maybe consider couples counseling instead? Just my two cents from someone who’s seen this movie before.